See, I don't run pro-line wheels on my stampede. That's probably why I don't have this problem.
I've run RPM's and they've been great. No issues, and they're tough enough for my driving. (I have shot my rustler with RPM talonz wheels off of my roof, landing right on the corner of the wheel. I thought for sure I was done - nope. They bounced right back and ran until the day I sold the truck. I was very impressed.)
I am currently running stockers on my stampede. Light and once you boil them, they hold together well.